Another one......so soon?

Hubby says to me last night.......

We gotta have another baby, so we can retire early.

I just don't know about that.....

I can see alot of advantages to having more than one kid, but also alot to having just one. The main reasons being, one baby is alot easier than two, and I won't have to worry about gaining another 80lbs, and I feel like I'm really getting close to being able to sleep all night with no interuptions, and now at least I have some free time while shes sleeping, so all the advantages that are most important to me, are about me, so maybe thats selfish. OF course there is also the argument that with only one baby, you can spend more one on one quality time. Of course with two babies you get twice the genes passed on to the next generation. They will always have a friend, and an enemy, I was always glad I had a sister even though we never really got along at all. I know alot of women cart around two or even more kids and do just fine, but I'm not sure I have it in me to do that. hmmmm...It sure is alot to think about.....Certainly is nothing I"m going to jump into, and certainly nothing thats going to happen this summer....or before I loose at least another 20 - 30 pounds.......On the up side....if I were pregnant I wouldn't have to worry about loosing wieght anymore.....But holy crap....with all I went though with the one I have now.....the hospital stay for me and for her....the worry the anxiety, I just don't think I want risk going though that all again....*sigh* I dunno